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Linko_16
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I was trying to say that sex is important; I'm usually told it isn't when I display my point of view on this. Some may have a stronger drive than others (particularly men, I find), but everyone's under it's spell. Look what happens when people are trapped without it: Priests, prisoners, navymen, all separated from women and stereotypically gay because of it. I'm trying to say sex is a good, healthy thing, but people do ruin their lives because they make poor decisions about how to satisfy their sex drive.
If you disagree with my philosophy on sex and marriage, that's fine. I was wrong to deliver it in the second-person, because I meant only to say how I felt, not what the universal solution was. Lots of people have consentual sex with no qualms about breaking up and finding someone new, I just hope to get it right in as few tries as possible, and the way I said it makes the most sense to me.
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Jack
Dream Diety
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| Posted: Sun Mar 26, 2006 8:22 pm Post subject: |
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Of course,nothing to disagree about.I liked the post, i thought ill share some ideas that came to my mind then.
Good luck there:)
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Huey
Chocolate Face
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| Posted: Mon Apr 10, 2006 3:35 am Post subject: |
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It's the most wonderful feeling I've ever felt...even if it is just a crush...
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rad
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Being in love is like baseball, you either hit the ball or strike out. 
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Bruno
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| Posted: Mon Apr 10, 2006 9:46 am Post subject: |
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| rad wrote: |
| Being in love is like baseball, you either hit the ball or strike out. |
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Krueger
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| Posted: Mon Apr 10, 2006 11:01 am Post subject: |
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| rad wrote: |
| Being in love is like baseball, you either hit the ball or strike out. |
If hitting of balls is involved, that`s a bad thing. No, really. *cringes by the very thought*
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Sarah
You lost The Game : )
Age: 22
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| I guess it really depends on your situation.. As you can see some people enjoy some don't .. Just .. Don't love them so much that you get hurt .. That's all I can say
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Huey
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| Posted: Mon Apr 10, 2006 7:24 pm Post subject: |
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| Sarah~M wrote: |
| I guess it really depends on your situation.. As you can see some people enjoy some don't .. Just .. Don't love them so much that you get hurt .. That's all I can say |
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Petter
Suddenly Around!
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| Posted: Tue Apr 11, 2006 7:37 am Post subject: |
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| Sarah~M wrote: |
| I guess it really depends on your situation.. As you can see some people enjoy some don't .. Just .. Don't love them so much that you get hurt .. That's all I can say |
Ive been there too (about every time in love)
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Sarah
You lost The Game : )
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| Posted: Tue Apr 11, 2006 2:00 pm Post subject: |
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| *Sarah hugs Huey and Petter!
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Huey
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| Posted: Tue Apr 11, 2006 3:02 pm Post subject: |
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 Yay! Hugs!
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Sarah
You lost The Game : )
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| Posted: Tue Apr 11, 2006 6:16 pm Post subject: |
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| YIPPEY!
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raidan36
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i think im in love with a girl in my skool but im not sure. ive never felt anything like it. Its just as everyone here says it is but is some my age realy capable of truely loving.
I want to ask her out but evry time im about to the words
dont come out. I just dont get engoth time with her to tell her what i think of her and i dont know if i sound ask her out because my m8 was talking to her and she said that she would not give me a chance but i cant let go. shes all i think about and i will care for her always. i was about to ask her out and i told her that i would do anything for no matter what it ment and just as i was about to ask her out one of her m8s walked over. i like everything about her and realy would do anything so she was alright but how do i say something like that.
i would like some advise on this plz
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wanderer nico
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| Posted: Thu May 04, 2006 8:38 pm Post subject: |
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i think im in love with a girl in my skool but im not sure. ive never felt anything like it. Its just as everyone here says it is but is some my age realy capable of truely loving.
I want to ask her out but evry time im about to the words
dont come out. I just dont get engoth time with her to tell her what i think of her and i dont know if i sound ask her out because my m8 was talking to her and she said that she would not give me a chance but i cant let go. shes all i think about and i will care for her always. i was about to ask her out and i told her that i would do anything for no matter what it ment and just as i was about to ask her out one of her m8s walked over. i like everything about her and realy would do anything so she was alright but how do i say something like that.
i would like some advise on this plz |
in my experience, yes, it is possible for someone so young to love. your understanding and definition of love will change over time, but that doesnt mean that what you feel right now isnt "real."
my advice to you, as someone who has a very difficult time getting words out verbally, is write her a letter about how you feel. also, dont make it pages and pages long, it might be too much for her at once there is beauty and clarity in simplicity.
good luck raidan!
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Linko_16
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I agree with Nico's suggestion of a letter, but if she's already said she wouldn't give you a chance (which I believe you mentioned she did), don't set your heart too firmly on her. You don't want it broken.
If she still won't consider getting to know you, you can't dwell on her. It may feel now like you'll care for her always, but you'll be able to forget about her if you set yourself in a different direction. You've got your whole life ahead of you... you'll find the right person.
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