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Cynster
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dream relationships w/ unexpected people
PostPosted: Fri 17 Feb, 2006  Reply with quote

Sorry if this is already a topic somewhere, I couldn't find it...

Has anyone figured out yet why on Earth we dream about having physical relationships with the oddest people? I don't mean made-up DCs, I mean real life people.

I had a dream last night where I was dating some guy at work who I don't have the remotest interest in (and I am in a great relationship IRL) and when I woke up I was like, "Huh?" Why the heck did I dream about him?

Of course this kind of thing has happened before and will likely happen again, but to me it's a real noodle-scratcher! ^^


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PostPosted: Sun 19 Feb, 2006  Reply with quote

It looks like everyone is too embarrassed spinning to post in here

I've had quite a few dreams of this nature, you always wake up thinking WHY?


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PostPosted: Sun 19 Feb, 2006  Reply with quote

Well, I don't mid those too much, but I usually prefer not to make them public nonetheless...

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PostPosted: Sun 19 Feb, 2006  Reply with quote

Yeah I know what you mean. Sometimes, I wonder if my brain has lost it crazy A couple of months ago...I had a dream where I had...ahem...relations..with a teacher I had years ago in the 8th grade. I don't even know why this happened...because not only had I completely forgotten about this teacher, but also she was extremely not attractive. I don't like it sadblauw its too gross!

Maybe our sub conciouses just like to pull pranks on us eek2


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PostPosted: Sun 19 Feb, 2006  Reply with quote

I was married to Cheryl Hines, once. You know, from Curb Your Enthusiasm.

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PostPosted: Sun 19 Feb, 2006  Reply with quote

I have those too ! (or had it is a while ago)

In the dream world I actually likes HAIRY girls .

Hairy as in a dog is hairy , Yuk !


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PostPosted: Mon 20 Feb, 2006  Reply with quote

I once had one involving, among some other stuff, a friend of mine from school. She was a friend I didn't ever have any kind of interest in, other than friendship itself. She even had a boyfriend at the time. I woke up feeling really weird o_o and the feeling continued for a while.

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PostPosted: Mon 20 Feb, 2006  Reply with quote

For as long as I can think , I never had this kind of dream.

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PostPosted: Tue 21 Feb, 2006  Reply with quote

According to psychanalysis, DC's represent functions of your psyche. Thus having physical relations with somebody is the simplest way to represent that you feel closer to what this DC symbolizes. And dreaming this DC dead the simplest way to show you're growing away from what they represent.

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PostPosted: Wed 22 Feb, 2006  Reply with quote

Basilus West wrote:
And dreaming this DC dead the simplest way to show you're growing away from what they represent.

Dreaming they're dead? Can't say I've had a dream about any dead people, ever...I don't think I have, anyway...I've dreamt about the un-dead (vampires), but that's another story. ^^

I wonder what my coworker symbolized to my subconscious? And what BenDrummin's unattractive teacher symbolized to him? Sometimes I just want to smack my subconscious!


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PostPosted: Wed 22 Feb, 2006  Reply with quote

I dreamed I was gay once, it was really wierd, and gross, but in the dream I was really into it. Has this ever happaned to anyone? Please say yes.

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PostPosted: Wed 22 Feb, 2006  Reply with quote

Someday I dreamed that I killed my friends...

I will never do that...


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PostPosted: Wed 22 Feb, 2006  Reply with quote

Its a good thing Freud isn't around to tell all of you that you had those dreams because they are your true inner desires. That would just be annoying.
Anyway i never had a dream i was gay, but i was once a girl who was into a guy. Hmm what else... I've had intimate relations with inadimate objects in dreams before. Weirdest was prolly a person made out of legos.


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PostPosted: Wed 22 Feb, 2006  Reply with quote

Area 51 wrote:
I dreamed I was gay once, it was really wierd, and gross, but in the dream I was really into it. Has this ever happaned to anyone? Please say yes.


uhh...no...sorry...

Oh! Oh! I had one of those "unexpected-dream-relationships"...haha! :D Me and BB! hugs

Unexpected to me? Well, for a dream...no

IRL? Haha! :D I'll let you guys play with that idea...wink5


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PostPosted: Wed 22 Feb, 2006  Reply with quote

Sepultura123 wrote:
Someday I dreamed that I killed my friends...

I will never do that...


I did around the same thing .Just that me and one friend tried to kill the 2 others by trowing knives at them ! eh


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