The girls/guys of your dreams

Good point Angstyboy,

But the problem is that not every dream necessarily shows your true self. So you can not be sure about that :confused:

I had ND’s about being with girls (Did not really enjoy that.) But I was a boy once and with a girl and I liked that :confused: Does that mean I want to be a man? I do not think so :razz: Maybe it shows that some of part me is more male like then female like… I think everybody has that.

So dreams might show your true self but it also might show a part of yourself. Mixing that up and you think wrong about yourself.

Yeah, true. That’s why I said “maybe sometimes.” Just a thought really.

May be something to make a dream quest out of… Or research project. Somehow.

i sure as hell do.
it’ll usually be a striking man, with GREAT style, clothes, hair… i mean everything i would wear if i were a guy basically. its more of a “wow do i know you?” feeling.
he is always very, very smooth too. never does a thing out of time, or awkward.
he comes into my dreams every few weeks, or months. he looks different almost every time, but i know who he is.
and i am not single in RL.

Actually, your dreams show your actual true self, the thing is that not always we accept what we dream. You might not like being w/ a girl IRL but there is a part,deep in your subconcious that you like someway girls, but perphaps by ethics, you don’t accept that irl.
Trust me i have said the same about things i don’t accept of my dreams, but i have discovered months later that dreams alway show our true self, even when appear to be non-sense.

I don’t completely agree here. Sometimes, dreams are things we have seen on TV. Or read in a book. I had a dream about exploding things, because I had watched Gilligan’s Island about plates that exploded, and that night our car was hit while parked…o.O

Your subconcious is sort of that little part of you, that says silly mean things that make you go, “why did I think that?” or, just your mind trying to defrag (like a PC) your mind for that day sometimes. It’s what you do with those thoughts, of how you feel when you are awake that makes you you. I mean, in a LD you have control, so that is different, but me dreaming about exploding things after I watched Gilligan’s Island about plates they discovered that exploded…does not mean I am some form of exploding plates. o.O (Actually the dream was about a witch who could cause car doors to explode…just the door. Because that’s all that was hit when someone hit our parked car!)

I find it just hits you with odd things…so…yeah I’ll stop now but :smile: No one can really be sure of what it is. It could be an insight into a person, the real them. Or it could just be something you saw on TV!

Just because I dream I’m a Borg, doesn’t mean I don’t like my individuality. It might mean I want to be part of a collective…or it might just mean I watched too much Star Trek! :smile:

(And I am posting here again…ackiness…)

How dare you have the audacity to make such a fallacious claim of rampant hypocrisy, Hime. First of all -

:razz: No, no - really, I’m just joking.

Well, in all fairness, I did say “sometimes.”

Like I said in another thread, no one can come to a general agreement on what dreams are specifically for because each person grants it unique meaning… or not. Depends on their caring for them.

And then again, Hime, your post makes me think of something:

Maybe dreams are so simple, even a child can understand them. In fact, an adult couldn’t understand them at all. Our brains are active all the time. Maybe dreams are just our mind’s time to play. (We have a huge hand in guiding our thought-process during the day, after all.)

We humans are full of contradictions, though. Aren’t we? :smile:

I think she means generally speaking, Queen. :wink:

But there’s a connection to them all, in some way. Seeing as we delved deeper into the subject until we came to this point.

Which causes me to pause for thought:

How many of us dream of fairly young DCs - children, teens, and young adults in their early- to mid-20s? And how many of us just look/feel younger in dreams than in waking life?

That could just be an idiosync of my own dreams, but the topic that Rod brought up - these incredibly beautiful people we see populating our dream worlds - they could be the personfication of immortality, in our SC’s sense. The archytypal “eternal youth.”

Eeer guys, I have really no problem with slightly off-topic discussions, such as the whole philosophical side of the DC relationships, but this whole life/death thing is way off :smile: Please stick to the main topic.

the death/life off shoot has now been transplanted into lounge :moogle:

mmh , well may i say something to what hime & Co sayed ? thank you :happy:
in my dreams i often feel younger (more into my early teens ) … ok, that being sayed i think that it is true that maybe a fair amount of people we “dream up” are people which we have seen IRL …

I guess that there a more female DC’s then male, although its not uncommon for guys to be main characters in my dreams. Usually though the males are people i know, friends or relatives. Last night i dreampt about the most perfect south african girl i’ve ever met. She is in my dreams every now and then. When i woke up i tried to go back into the dream, it was a success, the first time she worked in a deli and i mannaged to get her to go on a date with me where we danced in the rain, it was awsome!The second time around she just worked at a deli.

Mostly the female characters will be past lovers or girls that i liked.
Kaitlin
Lyne’
Emilee
Danielle
Unfortunatly even if we are both naked i’ll say something like “I dont wanna cheat on my gf”, that is because i have a gf whome i’m very dedicated to. It’s good, but i hate missing out on dream sex with chicks i used to like.
The same thing happends when i have the chance to smoke weed in a dream, which has happend almost every night since i quit, “hey dude, yo have these buds”, “nah its cool i’ve quit” :sad: althought last night i thought to myself, i’ll just save these for later, little did i know that i was dreaming and when i woke i had no weed in my pocket :sad:

I like to molest a pretty girl during an LD alot of the time. Usually, they are people I’ve never met, and often, someone I normally wouldn’t be that attracted to IRL. In fact, aside from a nice moment with Alyssa Milano I had a few weeks ago, the only other recognizable lady I’ve fondled has been my wife (she’s good in both worlds, BTW). :lol:

The Rev

Now, when you say molest

:uh:

Oddly enough, I had an ND last week where I didn’t follow a stark nude girl I find - in all respect - incredibly hot. :neutral:

Girls are the dreamscape for most guys…

Romance and Sex are on top in everything: Music,movies, internet, humor etc.

Of course, but TRUTH is the thing I mostly like, and the art of telling a lie :cool:

I never pay too much attention to unknown DC s.

The only ones that stand out are usually people I’ve known.

what do you mean by ‘‘truth’’ dreamwalker?

In the past week I’ve WILDed easily, kind of by accident, twice, and both those times the scenes I was led into, were with girls. In both cases girls from real life, although in the first one, the girl I knew, from my uni/college in Brighton, was introducing me to some girl I didn’t know, who I took an interest in before I was woken by my cat, and then had a very strange SP and Hypnagogia experience. The second time, there were these girls from when I was at school, who I’m still semi-intouch with on Facebook. I took one of them by the hand (a girl I’d often fantasised about), and casually led her around a corner intending to do naughty things with her, but almost without thinking, as if just following primal urges. Unfortunately that dream too escaped me, before I could get down to business.
Girls have often been the most vivid things in my NDs. I don’t often recall sensations of touch and temperature, but if I do, it’s usually from contact with a girl.

i find this aswell though these imaginary girls are not unwelcome i still prefer the person i fancie she’s prettier than a diamond shining in the sun.

My dream characters feel like they’re are just normal regular people, I don’t think I have met a really handsome guy where I’m thinking that the guy looks really hot. They look average to me so I don’t really pay attention to dream characters that much unless their is something interesting about them.

Oh, countless unimaginably handsome guys, but also many normal guys, and also many incredibly pretty girls, and lots of normal girls. There’s a wide variety. Not so many ugly people, though.