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Brownman
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Love in Dreams
PostPosted: Mon 14 Jul, 2008  Reply with quote

Has anyone ever shared a dream with DC that you feel connected to, maby even love? Once in awhile I will have a dream with a DC and there is such a strong connection between us and the feeling is amazing. When I wake up I actually get sad when I realize I was just dreaming. Its as if someone I knew had just died. Ive had numerous experiences like this and I think about them all the time. The thing is, I'm pretty young and I've never actually been in love with someone. Has anyone experienced this type of strong bond that I speak of with a DC?

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PostPosted: Mon 14 Jul, 2008  Reply with quote

I have some pretty close friends that are DCs....wow, I just realized how weird it is saying that. But really, they are recurring characters so it really kinda feels like they're friends of mine. I just see them at odd hours. I've never had anything near love, no, but I have a few choice DCs I would sorely miss if I stopped dreaming.

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Re: Love in Dreams
PostPosted: Mon 14 Jul, 2008  Reply with quote

Brownman wrote:
Has anyone ever shared a dream with DC that you feel connected to, maby even love? Once in awhile I will have a dream with a DC and there is such a strong connection between us and the feeling is amazing. When I wake up I actually get sad when I realize I was just dreaming. Its as if someone I knew had just died. Ive had numerous experiences like this and I think about them all the time. The thing is, I'm pretty young and I've never actually been in love with someone. Has anyone experienced this type of strong bond that I speak of with a DC?

Oh yes, I've been in love with dream characters many times. It happens fairly often. I don't like waking up from those dreams. But I got used to it after a while, and learned to enjoy them while they last instead.


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PostPosted: Mon 14 Jul, 2008  Reply with quote

Sometime last year I had a dream where I fell in love with a dying DC. She had cancer or some terminal illnes and all she wanted before she died was to experience love. So we fell in love but I quickly began to pity her. I felt guilty that I had sort of taken advantage of her. It's recorded in my DJ somewhere, check it out if you want.

Then another time I had a dream about an ex of mine, after we had broken up and pretty much hated each other and both knew any chance of us ever being happy together again was nonexistent. But for a brief moment in that dream I felt so deeply in love as if everything was back to the way it was. That one was tough waking up from.


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PostPosted: Tue 15 Jul, 2008  Reply with quote

I have had a connection like that, but when i wake up i have the exact opposite reaction. see... i've been going out with this girl for 7 months now. she's really cool. and i deffinately love her. so... i had a dream in which i was with her best friend, and i fell in love with her best friend in the dream, and didn't even have a second thought about it. when i woke up i was happy that it was over. i wouldn't want to cheat on my girlfriend. so... i think what i'm trying to say is, i don't think you should feel bad about love in a dream ending. your brain makes you believe that you love that person, when in reality they don't even exist. you should enjoy your dreams for what they are, but never take real life for granted. when you find somebody in real life who you love, you will never feel bad about waking from a love dream ever again. instead you'll be glad to wake up to know that you have real love. not just some love that your brain creates for you...

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PostPosted: Tue 15 Jul, 2008  Reply with quote

that's happened to me twice. It's funny how i can go through a whole day thinking about a DC..
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PostPosted: Tue 15 Jul, 2008  Reply with quote

Your DC will find you in the waking world

you go and talk to Her, and you ask her, come find me. Trust.

You don't need to be lucid, you just talk to her with your imagination, while you are about to fall asleep, just like praying, and ask her to come, ask God to make it right and it is so.


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PostPosted: Wed 16 Jul, 2008  Reply with quote

Trust? How can you trust in that? I don't think anyone's ever met for real through dreams.

Now I've never been "in love" for real, but I have had a couple of dreams that might come close. The one I remember had me rushing to do something in an old school of mine. It was a literature paper that if I didn't finish, I would fail the class. The book was a good 500 pager, I had a bunch of miscellaneous questions to answer from it and it was due in half an hour. For whatever reason, I was handed the quiz in the hall and ran to a secluded corner in the school to sit on the floor against the wall and do it. I got horribly stressed out and the time was ticking and I couldn't find the answers to my questions (The book was completely cryptic).

That's when the girl showed up and said hi.

Brown hair, blue eyes, very attractive. As she sat down next to me, the stress faded fast. We talked about normal, everyday things for a while, then she laid against me and we just sat there. And the feeling was incredible. I sat there against the wall with her for what seemed like ages, just enjoying the moment. Nothing more needed to be said. I woke up very refreshed after that experience, let me tell you.


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PostPosted: Tue 22 Jul, 2008  Reply with quote

I had a ND where I fell in love with my friend's friend.... I woke up and called it a nightmere


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PostPosted: Thu 24 Jul, 2008  Reply with quote

I've never been inlove in RL. I've had two crushes though, but for either person it just wouldn't work between us for reasons I don't feel like explaining. It didn't really go any further than that. But I once had an LD where I felt love. I woke up and felt very lonely. neutral

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PostPosted: Thu 24 Jul, 2008  Reply with quote

im in love in RL ^^ but i just had no LD up to now, though im anxious how it is , but hey keep smiling im just practicing since the day before yesterday wink

wish me good luck for tonight grin


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PostPosted: Wed 30 Jul, 2008  Reply with quote

Yeah, I married a ghost.

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PostPosted: Wed 30 Jul, 2008  Reply with quote

Wyvern wrote:
I've never been inlove in RL. I've had two crushes though, but for either person it just wouldn't work between us for reasons I don't feel like explaining. It didn't really go any further than that. But I once had an LD where I felt love. I woke up and felt very lonely. neutral


I know EXACTLY how that feeling is when you wake up from that, lol,it is way past lonely. i know how ya feel, hehe. but the good thing is it goes away after a while. wink kiekeboe


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PostPosted: Thu 31 Jul, 2008  Reply with quote

Ugh, I know eactly how you guys feel. I'm in this rut in which guys like me, but I don't have feelings for any of them. Basically I haven't met "the one" yet. I haven't fallen in love.

Last night I had a dream in which I met this amazing guy and we started dating, and it was wonderful...I thought I was finally experiencing true love.... And then I woke up. tryfly Bleh. The worst part about a good dream is waking up from it.


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PostPosted: Tue 12 Aug, 2008  Reply with quote

Hey I thought I'm the only with these love dreams, since I can't get a gf IRL unlike most of you guys cry Anyway these dreams are in my top 10(I've had only like 3 of them for the past 2 years)

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