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PostPosted: Mon 27 Oct, 2003  Reply with quote

FINALLY!! Last night I had the most kick *** sex with 2 chicks at the same time. Sorry to rub it in, because like I said, normally I can't ever stay asleep during this. This is just to say don't give up invisigoth! grin

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PostPosted: Thu 26 Feb, 2004  Reply with quote

I always seem to wake up if i have sex in a dream. Tonight it was a little different. The girl walked away, she said she had to do something else that was more important cry . I tried to convince her to stay, but she didn't. Usually it's the other way around, they want to have sex and i want to continue to do whatever i was doing.

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PostPosted: Thu 26 Feb, 2004  Reply with quote

JaRoD wrote:
I always seem to wake up if i have sex in a dream. Tonight it was a little different. The girl walked away, she said she had to do something else that was more important cry . I tried to convince her to stay, but she didn't. Usually it's the other way around, they want to have sex and i want to continue to do whatever i was doing.

Are you sure it wasn't a shared dream and she was busy with her lucid goal list. ?



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PostPosted: Thu 26 Feb, 2004  Reply with quote

lol didn't think about that. Might just be, if it was i wonder who the girl was? I have never seen her before. Maybe she's from this forum. She had quite short and dark hair.

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PostPosted: Fri 27 Feb, 2004  Reply with quote

JaRoD

Try and stabilize your dreams as soon as you become lucid. Then remember that this is your dream. Finally when you interact with DC really believe that DC will do what you tell them. Also, keep in mind that if you close your eyes during a LD you may wake up. Don’t worry you dream control will improve in time. Just takes practice. Keep in mind that you have to fully expect that things will happen and they will.


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PostPosted: Fri 27 Feb, 2004  Reply with quote

I have tried to stabilize my dreams but for me the dreams are usually quite short so i only seem to get a few more seconds if i do it. Tonight i even tried lucidity*1000 when the dream had went totally black and i did get about 10 sec more of lucidity and it was more real, but i woke up anyway. And if i try to have sex i usually get maybe 2-3 sec before i wake up.

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PostPosted: Sun 07 Mar, 2004  Reply with quote

Have you tried rubbing your hands tougher, or flying. I find that both of these will stabilize my dreams. Also, try not to get to excited about the LD when you become lucid. Everyone has this problem when they first start to have LD s. Don’t worry it will improve in time an your LD s will get longer and you will have more controll. I have also found that putting my hand through a wall will help stabilize things.

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PostPosted: Sun 07 Mar, 2004  Reply with quote

Try to make a mirror appear and stare into your own eyes. I did this once (haven't thought to do so since) and it brought me back to complete lucidity. I think if it works, it could by psycosomatic (?is that the right word?) because as you all know the eyes are the only ?muscle? that can move when dreaming. Excluding sleepwalking, of course.

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PostPosted: Sun 07 Mar, 2004  Reply with quote

I don't think I get exited when I get lucid. Except for my first one, in that one I looked like this reallybiggrin . But after that I have been able to stay calm. Tonight I did manage to have sex in a ND without waking up. I walked into a room and found a couple having sex and suddenly I was there having sex 8D . It was quite short but I didn't wake up, the dream even continued for a while after.

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PostPosted: Sun 07 Mar, 2004  Reply with quote

i guess this is the thread to post this question, i don't think i asked this before, but is anybody else super sexually sensitive in their dreams ???

example, this morning i had a dream where i was an assassin and assigned to kill bruce wayne who was having a 4 person orgy on top of a mountain plateau. i killed some dude and the one who i thought was bruce wayne, became lucid, and decided i might as well help myself to bruce wayne's girl

everything was cool until i moved my hand south of the border and then i ejaculated and woke up. yes, i said i ejaculated when i moved my HAND south of the border. i think it's been like that in my dreams as far as i can remember, and if i do actually have sex, i usually ejaculate and wake up like 0.3 seconds after penetration. i can last a lot longer than 0.3 second in WL. in a couple NDs i have lasted longer, but usually it's the same 0.3 second reaction if my hand or other body part wanders below the equator

i feel like that guy from american pie help! whatsthat ^^


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PostPosted: Sun 07 Mar, 2004  Reply with quote

LOL @ american pie! I know what yopu mean! grin

just the next time that hapens tell urself you wont go all the way.

focus all ur attention on NOT ejaculating.


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PostPosted: Sun 07 Mar, 2004  Reply with quote

Lucid_Adventurer wrote:
focus all ur attention on NOT ejaculating.

i usually am overspannen


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PostPosted: Mon 08 Mar, 2004  Reply with quote

Stop the cultivation excercises...

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PostPosted: Mon 08 Mar, 2004  Reply with quote

infection0 wrote:
Stop the cultivation excercises...

telling me to stop cultivation exercises is like telling me to stop eating food at this point, so i'm afraid i'm going to have to continue

besides, i'm not really convinced the cultivation exercises are what sensitized me so much in my dreams (though i won't rule it out as a factor) i've had NDs like of this nature before i even heard of sexual energy cultivation or LDing for that matter


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PostPosted: Tue 09 Mar, 2004  Reply with quote

I guess you can conduct a few experiments in your LDs to see what's wrong. Without anyone nearby, touch yourself and see if it happens. Then see if it's the excitement that does it or something... you know, the whole changing one part at a time kind of deal... maybe you should try rubbing your hands the whole time so you might be able to keep yourself in your dream...

I remember going for it once in a very low level LD and I ejaculated a lot faster than normal. Wasn't good at all either. But I didn't wake up or anything. I wasn't very lucid either...


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