I would like to direct your attention to the top right hand of the screen. You will see a link there to sealife which is a different site. One of our most popular members has a link to dreamviews in her signature. In fact we have many links to dreamviews and other sites in various posts on ld4all. We are welcoming of other lucid dreaming sits. So, (and I apologize in advance putting this so bluntly) you argument that we “holding one’s home in a higher light and occasionally having to denounce what lies on the outside to accomplish that” is completely absurd.
I can not say if this is true of you personally or not since I don’t know you at all. What I can tell you is :
=> many links on dreamviews to ld4all have mysteriously vanished or stopped working.
=> In several threads on dreamviews newer members have asked why there is not a link to ld4all on you links page. As near as I can tell they have yet to receive an answer. Furthermore, dreamviews has yet to place a link to ld4all on it’s links page.
=> Some of your members and mods have been openly hostile toward ld4all.
I can tell you why there is some hostility on ld4all directed at dreamviews but, I can not say the same for the reverse. Any hostility from us are the result of attacks by people and mods from your site, deletion of links and posts by your mods etc. What I can not find as I sift through old posts and links is what did anyone from ld4all do to dreamviews. From what I can tell we did nothing to provoke such hostility.
Anyway, I truly hope that things will change for the better in the near future. I would much rather spend my time discussing lucid dreaming or engaging in philosophical debates than dealing with nonsense. You have a good site with some good people and I for one would rather see the two sites emerge from this as partners rather than adversaries .
Good luck you you and I hope to heare more from you.